Self confidence is the key when approaching women, without confidence you´ll never be truly successful at this task. Sure, you can use a great opening line but this will only get you some brief attention, not giving you any time to build up any kind of attraction. Once you have stablished a conversation with a woman it will take her about a minute, sometimes maybe less, to measure just how confident you are.
Self confidence can not be faked; you either see yourself in a positive way or not, this has to do with actually believing you’re special, and have something to offer to the opposite sex.
One thing that determines your success rate is your body language, you need to ooze confidence way before you open your mouth. For example, let say you approach a woman with your head down and a weak voice…she probably won’t give you the time of day.
But before we cover body language, we need to make sure you have true confidence in yourself. Because when you believe in yourself and in your qualities, you will portay a positive and attractive body language without even trying. So, first of all you need to know what confidence is and why it is so important.
Don’t think that by reciting a bunch of pick up lines you’re set; as Ive been saying from the start its all about how you see yourself, and how you hold yourself when interacting with women. If you’re having difficulty approaching women, then this may be a sign of a lack of confidence, But even if you can over come the approach anxiety and still don´t think of yourself as a catch, with funny and interesting things to say… then you won’t accomplish anything; you need to be aware of who you are and what makes you valuable person.
Now, I´m going to give you a few ingredients of confidence; that’s right, just like a recipe.
Ingredient 1
Having control over yourself: self confidence isn’t just a state of mind is a state of being; you need to stop blaming someone else for you success or failures with women, since you are the ony one who has control of you actions.
Ingredient 2
Self confidence is package that includes your body language, how you speak and the way you look; Men who look good give this positive vibe that is sexy and makes them noticeable to women. But don´t just focus on your look, it has to come as a whole, from maintaining eye contact, keeping a good posture, and talking in an even calmed tone. You’ll be surprised how some small improvements can do to increase your self confidence and your success with women.
Finally i´m goin to throw your way a cople of tips that will help you with the process, just keep this in mind:
- Confident men when they look in the mirror they see someone that women find attractive.
- Also, confident men don’t focus on being confident they just focus on doing well whatever there is their doing. Own your behavior, and then you’ll be in a positon where you won’t hold women responsible when they are not interested.
- Always remind yourself you’re a catch
-treat women as equals, if you do this you will let them know that you are confortable talking to attractive women and that you’re not worried about offending them, which demonstrates confidence.
